In Loving Memory of Lillian Dana “Lill” Prosperino, Beloved Community Advocate, Educator, and Friend
It is with heavy hearts and profound sorrow that we announce the passing of Lillian Dana Prosperino, known lovingly as Lill, on June 19, 2025. A tireless advocate for harm reduction, a wise mentor, and a deeply compassionate friend, Lill left behind a legacy of healing, advocacy, and love that will continue to guide and inspire generations to come.
Lill was a core figure in the formation and growth of the Virginia Harm Reduction Coalition (VHRC). From the earliest days of the organization, Lill brought clarity, commitment, and calm strength—anchoring the work in principles of dignity, equity, and radical love. They helped build the foundation on which so many lives have been touched, healed, and saved.
Whether it was in a quiet office space behind the old Ramada, or on winding roads through West Virginia’s hollers, Lill showed up. They showed up not for recognition or praise, but because they believed in the simple, urgent truth: everyone deserves care. They believed in meeting people exactly where they were—geographically, emotionally, and spiritually—and modeled that belief in everything they did.
Many who worked beside Lill will never forget the countless hours spent packing harm reduction kits, brewing and sharing healing herbal salves from local plants, or gently guiding others with patient wisdom. Lill understood that harm reduction wasn’t just about supplies or strategy—it was about love. It was about building community through shared struggle and radical empathy. It was about creating safe spaces where none existed before.
Lill served as a subject matter expert for the National Harm Reduction Technical Assistance Center at the CDC and also held a respected position with the National Harm Reduction Coalition. Through workshops, field training, and countless consultations, Lill taught others how to serve with respect, grace, and science-informed compassion. They were a trusted guide to programs across the country, generously offering their vast knowledge while always centering the needs of the most vulnerable.
Their peers remember them as a quiet force—steady, unwavering, and deeply principled. They were someone who could command a room without ever raising their voice. Someone whose presence made others feel safe, seen, and valued. Lill didn’t seek credit; they gave it away freely, always lifting others and never asking for the spotlight.
Outside of their professional life, Lill was a devoted friend, a gentle soul, and a brilliant light in the lives of so many. They practiced solidarity not just as a concept, but as a daily commitment. Whether checking in with a friend in crisis, showing up with a batch of warm tea and salve, or just listening deeply when someone needed to be heard—Lill gave of themselves with full-hearted generosity.
The grief we feel in their absence is immeasurable, but so too is the gratitude for the time we were gifted with them. Lill’s legacy is woven into every life-saving initiative, every compassionate conversation, and every community that now knows how to lead with love, because they first witnessed it in Lill.
We send our deepest condolences to Lill’s family, friends, and extended harm reduction family across the country. We ask for privacy and peace as we collectively grieve and honor this monumental loss.
Rest in power, Lill.
Your life was a blessing. Your memory is a revolution. Your love endures.
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